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Workaholics are Not Role Models

A CEO of a reputed organization once said he has been working more than 90 to 100 hours a week for many years, and jokingly adds he should have done more. And in another reputed car manufacturing company dozens of employees and managers get cash rewards and appreciation certificates for not taking a single day leave during the last two or three years. In yet another case, a jet-set CEO was proudly patting his own back stating that he loves his work so much that he often does not see his family or kids for several weeks, and cannot remember when he took a couple of days leave or a vacation.
Nowadays, the number of such morons is increasing at an exponential rate. And you can very easily spot such people as they will be constantly talking on their mobiles, checking their handheld devices for text messages or always connected to their office via their laptops for never-ending emails and so on. Such people have their hands and minds loaded with projects, countless unfinished tasks, endless meetings, emails and constantly sweating the small, medium and big details. When questioned they claim to enjoy their job so much that they just work, work and do more work, especially to impress the media. And they also proudly believe they can be role models for others. However, contrary to what they believe or self-congratulate, such habits are nothing to be proud of, and nor should they be your role models as you will shortly see. In reality, workaholics are always driven by deep internal needs, rather than external ones. Here are some ugly facts about workaholics.
1. A New York tour operator once proudly said, ‘New York is a city that never sleeps.’ For this an elderly tourist calmly replied, ‘And it definitely looks like it’ Super workaholics are not necessarily the most efficient people even if they stubbornly work 18 hours a day. In fact, they are the least efficient of people. They may appear to be working, but internally their brain would have turned off. The output they produce or the ideas they generate when the brain and essential body systems turn off is nothing but trash and mediocre stuff.
2. Workaholics often believe themselves to be perfectionists and role models, and often the media also portrays them as so. But in reality they are neither perfectionists nor can be role models to anyone sensible and knowledgeable about the hazards of overwork. They may have plenty of hollow followers who are as lunatic as themselves, but no sensible person will agree or appreciate this kind of burnout.
3. High workaholics suffer from a disease called Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and an inability to let go. Most of them suffer from the indispensability syndrome to constantly prove something great every day and every minute. They cannot bear being left out and always want to be involved in everything. They are terrified of being left out of the loop or some information.  They are unable to delegate. And they believe nothing can work if they are not involved.
4. Excessive workaholics are appreciation seeking addicts with a deep craving for recognition and appreciation. They suffer from a deep inferiority complex and try to cover it up by proving they can work long hours and days without a break. Just like drugs, once a person gets into the appreciation seeking habit it’s very difficult for them to stop. They constantly seek appreciation and will keep doing things to invite more appreciation, even if their mind and body refuses to tag along.
5. Working non-stop is perhaps the lousiest of work habits and work-life balance. It is also the perfect road to ruining your health and those of others. Poor health and lack of a solid family life leads to poor performance and relationships at work. Workaholics not only ruin their health but also of their subordinates and their family members. Of course, they may earn more money than ordinary workers and access to more materialistic pleasures. But when they get a heart attack, stroke, high blood pressure and other nervous disorders it’s their family and dependents that will be bear the brunt of looking after a human vegetable. Hence, every workplace and home needs mentally and physically balanced individuals that can create pleasantness instead of chaos, stress and constant pressure.
6. Workaholics often don’t know whether they are workaholics. They falsely believe they are role models to the younger generation or their peers. But people will often pretend to appreciate a workaholic in front of them. But they laugh and ridicule them behind their back.
7. Finally, no one on their death bed ever says, ‘I wish I could have worked more.
And we can conclude this chapter with a great quote from Bertrand Russell, ‘One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that one’s work is terribly important.’

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